More Than a Label: Christian by Name or Relationship?

In today’s world, the term “Christian” is used frequently—and often loosely. It can signify a cultural identity, a family tradition, or a checkbox on a survey. Many people call themselves Christians because they go to church occasionally, believe in God, or were raised in a “Christian home.” But being called a Christian and actually living in a personal relationship with Jesus Christ are not the same thing.

To be clear, calling oneself a Christian isn't inherently wrong. In fact, in Acts 11:26, the disciples were first called “Christians” in Antioch—meaning “followers of Christ.” But over time, the term has often lost its depth and clarity. For some, it represents religion instead of relationship—ritual instead of reality. It can be easy to identify with Christianity outwardly, while never experiencing the transforming grace and intimacy of truly walking with Jesus.

A personal relationship with Jesus is something far deeper. It's not about appearances, rituals, or just “being good.” It’s about knowing Him personally—talking with Him, hearing from Him through His Word, and allowing the Holy Spirit to guide your life. Jesus didn’t come to start a religion; He came to restore relationship. In John 15:15, He says, “I no longer call you servants... instead, I have called you friends.” That kind of intimacy isn’t found in a label—it’s found in surrender.

The difference is seen in the fruit. Someone with a personal relationship with Jesus will display love, grace, repentance, and dependence on Him. It's not about perfection, but transformation. When we truly walk with Christ, we begin to reflect His character—not because we’re trying to earn salvation, but because we’ve received it.

So ask yourself: Am I a Christian in name only, or am I a follower of Jesus in relationship? One is external. The other changes everything.